Author: Bohsupremo

  • Cali-Livin’: The Beaches Of California, USA

    Cali-Livin’: The Beaches Of California, USA

    Over the last 4 months, my time spent in the US of A — mostly California, briefly Nevada and Arizona — had been nothing short of incredible and amazing.

    Not only have I met many different, inspirational people whom I’m proud to call my friends, the Californian landscape really never ceased to amaze me. Before I went to California, I didn’t know what to expect nor did I have any expectations of California’s landscapes. 

    Little did I know, I got extremely lucky because California lies right by the pacific ocean, which meant you could see an expansive, breathtaking view of the west coast of USA. Not only that, California offered a very good mix of urban and natural landscapes. 

    Out of all the states in the US, California has the most number of national parks (9) but I only had the chance to visit 2. 

    Because I went to California during the end of summer and left during winter, the seasonal differences not only gave each landscape its unique, phenomenal appearance, they let me experience a good variety of temperatures and experiment with different styles of clothing. Coming from Singapore where all we experience is summer, all of these were very exciting and interesting to me!

    In order of the beach I found least to the beach I found most interesting:

    Half Moon Bay State Beach (San Mateo)

    I drove to this beach on my way down from Berkeley/ San Francisco to Los Angeles/ Riverside. Along the way there were some views of the Pacific Ocean. Not going to lie, the views from my drive along the way, down to the views at the beach itself were pretty mundane.

    Half Moon Bay State Beach Pacific Ocean
    Half Moon Bay State Beach Pacific Ocean San Francisco
    Half Moon Bay State Beach Pacific Ocean San Francisco

    Apart from a campsite, the beach looked quite featureless and gloomy. 

    Next.

    Huntington Beach (Orange County)

    To be fair, I went to this beach really late with my friends and I was very tired by the time we got there. So I didn’t take a lot of photos and it was understandable that the beach wasn’t too eventful during the time we were there. 

    We only went to the pier and there was a shopping area right next to it. Most of the shops were closed by the time we were there, except for the bars and night clubs. There was also a good amount of drunk/ tipsy people around where we were! It was pretty amusing watching them making a din.

    Huntington Beach Pier
    Huntington Beach Pier Shopping

    Newport Beach (Orange County)

    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach Bear Flag
    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach Pier
    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach
    Newport Beach

    I like this beach because it’s so vast (actually all the beaches from this point on offer really expansive views) and the area around this beach is pretty posh and upscale. There were a lot of nice houses immediately by the beach.  

    The water on this beach was pretty clear and as you can see from the photos, people also surf there. If only I had enough time and money to pick surfing up! 

    There were some restaurants and pubs around and there was one, Bear Flag Fish Company, that we had gone to a couple of times. It offered really good burritos and I also really like their poke bowls. 

    Laguna Beach (Orange County)

    Laguna Beach Paddleboard
    Laguna Beach
    Laguna Beach Houses
    Laguna Beach
    Laguna Beach Bohsupremo
    Laguna Beach
    Laguna Beach
    Laguna Beach
    Laguna Beach

    Similar to Newport Beach, the area around this beach is really upscale and posh – we saw many big houses along the beach and there were more of them inland, up the hills next to the beach. 

    There wasn’t much to do along the beach since there wasn’t a pier that we could go on nor was shopping immediately available. There was however a beach volleyball court and a playground for children.

    There were shops, restaurants and shops along some of the streets nearby. The shops sold pretty interesting and hipster stuff! 

    La Jolla Cove (San Diego)

    La Jolla Cove
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego Seal
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego
    La Jolla Beach San Diego Seals
    La Jolla Beach San Diego

    I liked this beach better than Laguna and Newport because it wasn’t the typical sandy, depositional beach. If I didn’t remember my Oceanography class wrongly, La Jolla Cove/ Beach is an erosional beach. Technicalities aside, it basically had a landform that was different from the typical sandy one we associate with a beach. Novelty was an important factor for me throughout this entire California trip so I preferred this beach. 

    There were shops, restaurants and pubs around the beach but we didn’t go to any of them because we didn’t have enough time. From the looks of them, they were similar to those in Newport and Laguna. 

    For some reason there was a good amount of seals laying by rocks and they seemed really cool with so many people going near/ taking photos of them. It was pretty interesting!

    People also do scuba diving and kayaking at the La Jolla cove area of this beach. 

    Venice/ Muscle Beach (Los Angeles)

    Venice Beach Sunset
    Venice Beach
    Muscle Beach
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach Skate
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach Marijuana
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach Sunset
    Venice Beach
    Venice Beach Shops
    Venice Beach

    Venice beach ranks high for me because it was really vibrant with different street performances, street art, food and there was great diversity in the people I saw there.

    There was a skateboard park in Venice beach and a bunch of facilities (pull-up bars, ropes etc.) that bodybuilders/ athletes might be very interested in on Muscle beach.

    Of course, the beach offered a wide view of the Pacific Ocean with loads of people enjoying themselves, playing frisbee, volleyball, jogging etc. It was really quite the sight and by evening it was really breezy and relaxing. 

    Venice/ Muscle beach had a good mix of vibrance and chill which I really liked!

    Santa Monica Beach (Los Angeles)

    Santa Monica Beach Ferris Wheel
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles Third Street Promenade
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles Pacific Park
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles Ferris Wheel
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles Third Street Promenade
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles Street Performance
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles
    Santa Monica Beach Los Angeles

    My favourite beach yet! It might be because this beach was the first one that I went to and I got really blown away by the sights it offered. 

    What first drew me to like this beach so much was (obviously) its impressive, clear view of the ocean. Then I saw the hustle and bustle on its pier, which offered a sizeable amusement park, an arcade, a few restaurants, several pushcarts and there were different interesting buskers and street performances. It was so full of life!

    Parallel to the beach, there were a few streets that offer good shopping. The most prominent of them all is the Third Street Promenade, with various big brands such as American Apparel, A&F and Old Navy. It also helped that we went to Burgerlounge, a burger joint there, which had awesome burgers! 

    I only went into the waters of Santa Monica beach because it was the only beach I went to with beach wear. But ironically the water of Santa Monica is the least clear out of all the beaches in this list. It was also during summer when we went so I could tolerate the coldness of the Pacific Ocean. We went to the other beaches during fall so the temperatures weren’t exactly suitable for swimming, at least for me. The waters of all the beaches listed here are typically pretty cold. 

    I thoroughly enjoyed myself the two times I went to Santa Monica beach so I really, really liked it there! 

    So this concludes the list of beaches that I went to in California. I hope this list helped provide you with a sense of what to expect if you intend to visit the beaches of California or at least entertained you! 

    There were other beaches along the Californian coastline that I didn’t get the chance to visit, such as the El Matador State beach in Malibu and the one(s) on Catalina Island. So this list is definitely not exhaustive and it only documents the beaches that I went to. 

    Until the next entry on Cali-Livin’

  • Yosemite National Park, California, USA

    Yosemite National Park, California, USA

    Slightly more than a week ago a few friends and I went camping at the Yosemite National Park and it was quite possibly the best, most incredible but arduous road trip I’ve gone on this entire exchange program. (2021: lol weak) I saw my first ever natural snow a few weeks ago on the Castle Rock Trail of Big Bear Lake but it was here in Yosemite where I saw my first ever falling snow and it was beyond spectacular! (2021: haha i still remember my excitement; snow has fallen a few times in CPH now; still pretty 🤩)

    We arrived at Yosemite Valley on a Sunday morning and left on the following Tuesday morning. Because we slept in the car for two nights and camped outdoors (atop the Upper Yosemite Falls) for one, we spent money only on petrol, water, food, renting camping gears from UCR and other miscellaneous items like snow chains, souvenirs and coffee.

    When we first arrived, Yosemite Valley was looking slightly grey, gloomy and foggy but those conditions weren’t unexpected. We read that it was going to rain and even snow. The greyness didn’t bother me too much because I was too preoccupied with anticipating falling snow (2021: yuh me as a tropical climate noob). 

    Yosemite National Park Tunnelview
    Yosemite National Park Tunnelview

    Because it gets dark by 5pm, we went on the Vernal Fall trail, which was one of the easier, shorter trails in Yosemite. We didn’t complete it because the later part of it was closed probably because of ice and snow. But it was along this trail where I witness my first ever falling snow!! (2021: yee-yeet) One big thing off my bucket list. 

    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall
    Yosemite National Park Vernal Fall

    It got colder in the night after we did the trail and it began to snow harder than it did in the day. 

    Then in the following morning, this magic happened:

    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall Trail
    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall Trail
    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Snow
    Yosemite National Park Snow

    The sky cleared up and I was so incredibly awed by this white, winter wonderland. The view was absolutely breathtaking! We really couldn’t have chosen a better date to go to Yosemite. First the falling snow and then its aftermath. Few things could make me happier. For our final day in Yosemite, we hiked up to Upper Yosemite Fall and camped overnight there. Not going to lie, the hike up was really tough. I lagged pretty badly behind my friends and I couldn’t have completed (or even done) the hike without them. (2021: haha ya still love them.)

    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    (2021: she’s still very pretty)
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall
    Yosemite National Park Upper Yosemite Fall

    Our night up at the Upper Yosemite Fall wasn’t easy either. It was around -10°c to -15°c and I was so inept and unprepared at dealing with that coldness (2021: now I know all it takes is a good down jacket and some fleece 😇). I’m still suffering from frostnip in my fingers and toes even after more than a week.  

    I was really disinclined to move once we got up there because it was so cold and I was so exhausted and hungry from the hike. I am very ashamed to say that my friends did all the work of setting up tent before sunset (2021: still useless; current friends can attest 🥲), after which it got colder and windier. 

    Yosemite National Park Merced River
    Yosemite National Park Merced River
    Yosemite National Park Merced River
    Yosemite National Park Tunnelview

    Thank you Pontus, Paula and Andreas for this invaluable trip up north to Yosemite, for all your advice and help with camping gears, the hike, the cold and the drive!

    I had such an awesome, awesome time up there and if you ever visit California, Yosemite National Park is a definite must-see. (2021: will pay top dollar to go back)

  • “When Am I Going To Get A Girlfriend?”

    “When Am I Going To Get A Girlfriend?”

    Some days ago a friend asked me,

    “Boonz, when are you going to get a girlfriend?”

    Initially I felt slightly annoyed by that question because I knew my friend didn’t really care about my love life – nobody who asks a question like that really cares about your love life. It was pretty obvious to me that my friend asked me that question for the sake of conversation. Furthermore, I was stressed out enough already I really didn’t need to think about what else in my life I was lacking in.

    Exactly my feels

    But then again my friend wouldn’t have thought so much – after all it was just a harmless conversation starter. Eventually I just shrugged the question off.

    But I thought about that question later and I wondered instead of asking when was I going to get a girlfriend, why didn’t my friend ask me when was I going to date someone? If you didn’t already realise, the premise of my friend’s question assumes that I am heterosexual. 

    My point is, why didn’t my friend ask me that question in a manner that makes no assumption about my sexuality right from the start? 

    Well it might be because,

    1. I always look at girls with googly eyes so I was unquestionably straight 

    OR

    2. It could simply be because I am a boy, and boys, according to heteronormative ideals, date girls.

    Heteronormativity is the belief that heterosexuality is treated as a given and it is the “default” sexuality that is widely accepted by society in general.

    I have teased my friends about their love lives and asked them questions along the same line and I’m sure many of you have done the same. Here’s the catch: how many of you actually identify yourself as someone who supports or is at least tolerant of sexualities other than heterosexuality? 

    I was thinking then if we say that we are supportive or tolerant of sexualities other than mainstream heterosexuality, but on a very intrinsic level still ask questions that assume a person’s sexuality, are we really as supportive or tolerant as we make ourselves out to be?

    Think about it this way: imagine you have a friend who’s in the closet, you have no idea, they are not ready to tell people about their sexual preference and are struggling with their sexuality and identity. But time and again, you and many of their other friends keep asking them about their luck with the opposite gender, how are they with so-and-so from the opposite gender etc.

    I would think that it is a very frustrating experience for that friend because essentially everyone keeps prodding them about a social norm (partnering with someone of the opposite gender) they have no intention to pursue. And the thing is, you will never know when you’re going to meet someone with struggles like that – the scenario that I’ve just described is really not that unlikely.

    Besides asking people questions with inherent assumptions of their sexuality, one other thing that I feel we often gloss over is our use of sexual slurs.

    When we feel that someone is weak, cowardly or when they don’t rise up to the occasion, we call them “gay”. When we see an effeminate man who doesn’t subscribe to heteronormative expectations, we call him “gay”. When we see an object that is too neon bright, we call it “gay”. The list of situations goes on. 

    As people who claim to be supportive and tolerant of sexualities other than heterosexuality, we use the term “gay” and other sexual slurs in dismissive and derogatory manners far too often for comfort. And we don’t give second thoughts about it. 

    So as people who claim to be supportive and tolerant of alternative sexualities, are we really fostering a supportive and tolerant environment for non-mainstream sexualities through our actions? 

    However, I am acutely aware of all the efforts that have been put in to create an inclusive environment for non-mainstream sexualities. More and more people are stepping out to proclaim their support during events such as Pink Dot each year. Many Youtubers have made coming-out videos to inspire and help people who may be lost. Through a friend, I also heard of a shelter that was built to support the transgenders in Singapore, which I never knew about.

    I won’t discredit any of those efforts. It is also not my intention to challenge the current societal heteronormative ideals. All I’m asking for is that we start thinking, for the sake of consistency, whether our actions align with what we claim to believe in and support.